A wedding guest got flak for not drinking the champagne during a celebratory toast to the newlyweds. In a recent post on Reddit’s “Am I the A-----?” forum, the guest shared that they had just attended ...

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The guest wrote on Reddit that they felt “weirdly pressured and uncomfortable” by their mom's insistence that it was bad etiquette not to drink the champagne Erin Clack is a Staff Editor for PEOPLE.